Conversation Starters That Go Beyond 'Hey'

Messages that reference something specific from a person's profile get replies at nearly twice the rate of generic openers.

Try the 'two truths and a lie' opener, ask about the story behind a photo, or make a playful guess about their favorite hobby.

Keep the first message short — one to three sentences. You're starting a conversation, not delivering a monologue.

And when the chat is flowing, suggest moving to a date within a week. Momentum matters more than perfect banter.